A Blogpost by Crystal Goetz
Anyone who has ever been left out of something they deeply wanted to be part of knows the sting of exclusion. It’s a feeling that can lead to questions like, “Why don’t I fit in?” or “Will I ever truly belong?” These are questions we hope no one ever has to ask when attending Messy Church.
At Messy Church, hospitality is one of our five core values—a value that calls us to welcome all who enter and ensure they feel seen, valued, and embraced. This commitment goes beyond simply opening our doors; it’s about creating a culture of belonging, where every individual knows they have a place.
Striving to be all things to all people is no small task, but it is a challenge we wholeheartedly embrace. This process begins with the resources we provide through Messy Church USA. As I worked on my latest session, I realized the profound responsibility we have as writers to craft materials that reflect this inclusive vision. The words we choose, the stories we tell, and the perspectives we amplify all contribute to shaping an environment where everyone feels welcome.
It was important for me, as a writer, to try the story and activities out with neurodivergent people as well as people who are not, as they put it “crafty”. In doing this we, as providers of resources, also embody the values of creativity and hospitality.
While it may not always be possible to meet every need perfectly, we are committed to continuous learning and adapting. Each gathering is an opportunity to refine our approach, listen to those around us, and find creative ways to be even more welcoming. Inclusion is a living, breathing practice—one that evolves as we seek to be more thoughtful and intentional in the way we show hospitality.
Creating truly inclusive spaces means considering the diverse needs of those who join us. Small but meaningful accommodation can make a big difference. Providing earplugs for individuals sensitive to noise, designating a quiet area for those who need a retreat from the bustle, ensuring materials are accessible for those with different learning styles, and offering visual aids for non-verbal communication—these are just a few ways we can extend hospitality in practical and impactful ways. Inclusivity is about anticipating needs and removing barriers so everyone can engage fully and comfortably.
Inclusion is not an afterthought—it is the very foundation of hospitality. Through both intentional writing and the lived experience of Messy Church, we affirm our commitment to ensuring that no one feels left out, but instead, truly belongs. Messy Church is a safe and welcoming space where all people can explore their faith, knowing they are valued and embraced. Together, we can make every Messy Church gathering a meaningful and inclusive experience for all who enter.
Thanks for reading! Crystal
Crystal Goetz is from Puyallup, Washington. Over the past years, she has started two separate Messy Churches that are still active.
Crystal is a Messy Church USA Board member, ambassador, writer and trainer. She is an exuberant supporter of Messy Church. You can reach her at crystal@messychurchusa.org
